The holiday season is a time for joy, celebration, and togetherness, but for those managing vaginismus, it can also present unique challenges. The decision-making process around whether to continue dilating during the holidays when your Great Aunt Ruth is around doesn’t have to be stressful. But maintaining a stress-free mindset is going to be key …
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Vaginismus, a condition characterized by involuntary muscle contractions of the vaginal wall muscles, can be quite frustrating to manage. While the path to overcoming this condition is often characterized by determination and patience, something like a menstrual cycle can get in the way of this. One of the more frequent questions I get asked is …
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Psychological safety has a profound impact on your vaginismus recovery, influencing your dilator routine, your relationship with your partner, and, most importantly, your relationship with yourself. Understanding and fostering psychological safety can create an environment of acceptance, respect, and emotional security, supporting your healing process in profound ways. Psychological safety entails experiencing a sense of …
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Dealing with vaginismus can be a challenging and sometimes frustrating journey. It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed, discouraged, and lacking motivation along the way. Factors such as a fear of failure, the repetitive nature of the work involved, and the lack of external accountability due to the private nature of the condition can all contribute …
6 Practical Ways to Stay Motivated on Your Vaginismus Journey Read More »
Pelvic wands have become increasingly popular as a tool for managing pelvic pain and dysfunction. A pelvic wand is a medical tool used for self-care or by healthcare professionals to alleviate pain or discomfort in the pelvic region. It is designed to be inserted into the vagina and has different end points that can be …
Using pelvic wands to manage pelvic pain and dysfunction. Read More »
Dilators are often used to treat vaginismus. It’s the “gold standard” intervention to get your vagina to cooperate, but the process can be challenging, frustrating, and well, boring for most. It is essential to have a positive and engaging attitude towards using dilators, as it can significantly impact the healing process. For many women with …
